IELTS Speaking part 3 Giving gifts
In your country, when (on what occasions) do people give gifts to others?
In my country, people give gifts for many different reasons. One of the most common times to give gifts is during holidays like Christmas, where families and friends exchange presents to celebrate and spend time together. Birthdays are another important time for giving gifts, as people choose meaningful presents to make the person celebrating feel appreciated and valued. Weddings are also important, and guests often bring gifts to congratulate the couple and wish them a happy life together. There are also religious festivals, like Chinese New Year, where giving gifts is a way to share joy and bring people closer. Besides these big events, people also give gifts for smaller reasons, like congratulating someone on a new job or a graduation, welcoming a new baby, or simply saying “thank you” to someone who has been kind or helpful.
Do people today still give the same kinds of gifts that people used to give, many years ago?
These days, people give quite different gifts than they did in the past, though some things haven’t changed. Back then, gifts were usually practical, like handmade stuff, food, or tools—things people could actually use. They were special because they were useful and often made with a lot of care. Now, with all the new technology and trends, gifts have shifted a lot. People love giving gadgets like phones, smartwatches, or headphones, especially for younger folks. That said, some classic gifts, like flowers, books, and jewelry, are still around because they’re timeless and thoughtful. So yeah, the actual gifts might look different now, but the idea behind giving them—showing love and care—hasn’t really changed.
Why do people like to receive gifts?
People like to receive gifts for many reasons, and it’s usually about more than just the gift itself. A gift shows that someone cares about you and took the time to think of you, which makes you feel special. It’s a way for people to say, “I care about you” or “I’m thankful for you.” Plus, getting a gift is exciting—it could be something you’ve wanted for a while or a total surprise, and both are pretty awesome. Sometimes, the meaning behind the gift is what matters most, like if it’s handmade or reminds you of a happy memory. Unwrapping a gift is fun too; there’s that little moment of curiosity and joy. Whether it’s something big or small, useful or sentimental, a gift can make you feel happy, loved, and connected to the person who gave it to you.
Do you think it’s suitable to give money as a gift?
Giving money as a gift can be suitable in many situations, but it really depends on the occasion and your relationship with the person. For things like weddings, money can be a great choice because it gives the person the freedom to spend it however they want—whether it’s for something they really need or just a little treat for themselves. But sometimes it can feel a bit impersonal, especially with close friends or family where picking out something specific shows you put more thought into it. That said, you can always make it feel more special by presenting it in a fun or personal way. Maybe write a heartfelt note or tuck it into a card that makes it feel a little more meaningful. In the end, it’s all about knowing the person and what feels right for them. If it fits the moment and shows you care, it can be just as thoughtful as any other gift.
Do you think it’s a good idea for people who are doing business with each other to exchange gifts?
I think exchanging gifts in business can be a nice touch, but it really depends on the situation and the people involved. Sometimes, giving a small, thoughtful gift can help strengthen a business relationship. For example, sending a little gift after closing a deal or celebrating a big milestone can be a great way to show gratitude and build a stronger connection. That said, it’s important to keep it professional. A gift that’s too personal or too expensive might make things feel awkward or even raise some eyebrows, especially if it looks like you’re trying to influence someone or put pressure on them. The key is to keep it simple and thoughtful—nothing too fancy or over the top. If you make sure it’s the right gift for the person and the situation, it can be a good way to build a stronger working relationship.
Useful Vocabulary
- exchange presents = when two or more people give gifts to each other, like during Christmas or holidays
- feel appreciated and valued = to feel special and important because someone has shown care for you
- practical (adj) = useful and helpful in everyday life, like tools or something you can use regularly
- gadget (n) = a small device or machine, often electronic, like a phone, smartwatch, or headphones.
- remind you of … = make you think of a memory, event, or feeling from the past.
- unwrap a gift = To open a gift by taking off its wrapping paper or packaging
- sentimental (adj)= Having a lot of personal meaning or emotions attached, like a handmade gift or something connected to a memory.
- a little treat = a small gift or special experience meant to make someone happy, like a nice snack or a small amount of money.
- impersonal (adj)) = not very personal or meaningful, like giving money without adding a thoughtful touch.
- a heartfelt note = a message written with genuine feelings and care, often to show love or appreciation.
- a thoughtful gift = a gift chosen carefully to show you care about the person, like something they need or love.
- milestone (n) = a significant event or achievement, like graduating, getting a job, or reaching a big goal.
- awkward (adj) = uncomfortable or a bit embarrassing
- raise some eyebrows = to cause surprise or concern, like when something seems unusual or suspicious, such as giving an overly expensive gift in business.
